The secrect is the law of attraction.
We can attract what we want in our life by our minds.
Just think yourself as a magnet.
Thoughts will become things no matter you really want it or not.
Whatever it is you are feeling is a pefect reflection of what is in the process of becoming.
In other words, what you think and what you feel and what manifests is always a match.
All you have to do is ask yourself what you really want,and answer it ,imagine what it feels like as if you've already got it.In the end,you will receive what you want.
All that we are is the result of what we have thoguht.
For example, if you always think "oh, I don't wanna go working today" every morning when you get up and you don't have any "happy" thoughts in your mind,then your whole day will be as bad as possible.That's what you thin.The universe just redlect what you think.
So...why not think everything in a positive way?
When you visualize dreams, then you materialize them.
When you have inspired thought, you have to trust it and act on it.
If you know your potential to feel good,you will ask no one to be different so that you can feel good.You 'll free yourself from that imposibility,not needing to control the world or your mate or child.
You are the only one who creates your own reality.
Remember,whether you think you can or you can't ,either way you are right, for that what you resist always persists.
Life is unlimited! Just follow your bliss!